A Fear of Being Yourself

Amanda Iheme
4 min readMay 2, 2019
art by Jefferey Alan Love

When you say what you want from the people around you and a deep sense of fear overcomes you and you find yourself worrying that you are being too harsh, too demanding, too needy or inconsiderate, it isn’t always because there is something wrong with your request or with you. It is the fear of not getting what you asked for and being exactly what you were worried about: harsh, needy, unworthy.

Amanda Iheme

musings of a 29 year old woman living and working in Lagos, Nigeria.